Even though I’ve been studying, experiencing, and writing about sacred sexuality for years, a mist still surrounds tantra itself. The many tantra books I’ve read all seem to have different bottom lines. Some experts advise the man to avoid orgasm…
Love and fear are the two choices, and they appear in all our everyday experiences, moment-to-moment; so too does the choice of where we choose to place our loyalty. Are we aligned with love or with fear? This essential question…
Trust is deeper than LOVE. How could this be? Years of studying Tantra and what I call spiritual intimacy have led me to believe that without trust and a sense of safety, fear-based consciousness will contaminate love, and therefore unconditional…
Perhaps even before the “why” question is the “what” question: What is Tantra really about and what does it set out to accomplish? So the questions include not only, “What is Tantra?” but also, “What do I need to do…