Sex is a natural part of the growth experience of all human beings.  It is also one of the most misunderstood and abused.

I assure you that I do not hold any judgment of your choices – I do not have that right.   I do however; feel that you should be educated so you understand your experiences.  I do also believe that you should understand the spiritual aspects of love making, because in its highest form, sex is the closest experience you will have to God.

In this I mean that the true coming together of two consenting adults, in the act of love, for that is what it is, is a lifting and exhilarating experience.  But that is the truth of sex (with love) and this is not often understood.

Your natural body is a temple where God resides and the sex act is an offering to that temple. That is the true meaning of sex.

On the planet at the moment sex is often used as a means of control and revenge.  Sex is an act done in order to get attention, be liked or an attempt to find love. You are being fed this subliminal message through out most advertising and music video clips.   It is the upside down situation here.  Pardon the pun.  First comes the love and then the sex.

Many of you, as we did in our time, will have sex for the experience.  This is not wrong – it just needs to be done as a choice will full understanding of what happens (not just the physical experience, but also the spiritual experience for the two cannot be separated).

When sex is participated in without love, what occurs is a surge of negativity that will enter not only your physical body but also your energy body.  The higher your energy the more effect it will have – but for any it will most definitely have a negative effect.

There may be a feeling of nausea, of being abused or feeling dirty.  These things do happen and you should be taught this in your sex education classes.

The physical is concentrated on, and this of course is also important.   The ability to protect you from sexually transmitted diseases is very important but so are the energetic effects of sex.  This is the often unknown and not nearly enough is taught about this aspect of sex that is also damaging.

The coming together of two in the act of love is an exhilarating experience – you will notice of course that I said “act of love” and not “sex”.  There is a flush of light that travels throughout the whole body and both are left feeling love and close to another.  This feeling lasts and lasts.

If you choose to have a quick fling for the experience it is important for you to know that the negative effects of this will also last and last.  It is your choice, and not wrong, but you should make this choice with the full understanding the same as you make a choice for protected sex with the full understanding of the repercussions of unprotected sex.

There is a huge difference in the experience between “making love” and “sex without love” – and many of you will experience both of these realities in your future.

Understand that I am not referring to only the youth, or singles here.   Many adults have never had the true experience of love making and that includes many who are in marriages that also do the act of “sex” without love.  It is a choice that all make many times throughout there lives.  It is one of the greatest causes of negativity on the planet.

Many of you have traveled this road before in past incarnations, and many of you this time want the experience of true love making.  Do not make yourselves wrong for wanting this higher experience, for in truth you have done the other many, many times – you just don’t necessarily remember.